Thursday, February 24, 2011

Friends

Friends play a really important role in our life, and everyone needs friends no matter who you are. Homwever, what kind of friends we need is a really controversial problem nowadays. Some people think the friend who is congenial with ourselves is the most suitable friend. However, others think a friend should be complementary with us. Actually, in my life cycle, I have two kinds of friends, one is those who are similar with me, and another is who are quite different from me.

The friends who are similar with me are controversial with me. We have similar interests, habits, life style, and even similar opnion to most things. We usually get togethor harmoniously, because we have same thoughts on almost everything. Actually, this reasult also makes us feel bored some times. Can you imagine the feeling of no any differences with all people around you? Therefore, I also make friends with those who are different from me.

Conversely, with the friends who are different from, I feel quite defferent from with the friends who are similar with me. Although we also argue with each other, we can actually learn many things from each other at the same time. We always exchange our opinions and argue with each other. Moreover, we can learn how to get on well with people who dislike you in this way.

Finally, for me, "birds of a feather flock together" is an unnecessary and sufficient condition in the aspect of making friends. Different life expirences, interests, and opposite opnion on issues can also make benefits to our friendship. There is no gap between people if you open your heart to accept differences.

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